Lies Society teaches us about Love
Love conquers all things was the very expression of a preacher man. It also claims to be the primordial core value of all the religions of the world. In fact in most religions, if not all, love is central to their preaching and spiritual life. But if this is the case for every religion, why is there still so much evil in the world?
Or is it that the entire world’s religions have failed to live out love? Or could it be that despite the incessant call to love that breeds peace and unity, followers of various religions are not doing enough to love? Or does it mean that religious men and women love only the tenets, practices and doctrines of their religion so dearly but fail to love humans? Perhaps they are in love with the God or gods of their religion that they think loving him alone is sufficient. And now society has taken the pride of place in the discussion of this foundation that holds every religion.
Most of what the society has taught about love is a Scam
Some the paradigm for teaching love and all that pertains to it. Well if that is the case I dare to say that most of what our society has bequeathed to us about love is a scam. Then there is a need for, more than ever before for a mind fuck (that is a situation that calls into question the way your mind currently sees a certain idea or the world in general). There is no doubt that love has got many definitions in our society today. These definitions stem from different sources that have become deeply rooted in our minds. In this way, our society has presented to us loving as if love itself were more than a single thing. And I dare to say that these love definitions or models are not only subjective ones but also selfish or possessive ones. See it for yourself when people talk about love; if you love me, you will take me out; if you love me, prove it on the bed; if you truly love me, pay my bills, schools fees, cook for me and other ‘take my responsibilities attitudes’. It will be rare or termed strange by this same society to encounter relations out of this conditional or possessive or selfish love. For us to experience, lovely minds discuss; plans for the future, working together to succeed, sharing burdens, difficulties, the goods, the bad, the ugly and the beautiful of lives in unison, caring for one lovely soul as if it were for oneself, sacrificing time, talent and treasure without conditions or love of gain. I am cocksure that many individuals will be hostile to my claim. There’s no offence. It is due to the make-believe teachings the society has imparted and it can be difficult to let go because they are now in consonance with our mindset. But the truth remains that our society has bequeathed more and more lies. And when I mean society, I do not downplay the presence and perpetual influences of those who make up the society.
“Love is the care, attention and kind gestures, you lavish unconditionally”
So, we are all products of this societal scam. It will take a critical mind to pay attention to how tons of love drama or scenarios had evolved. It will take a patient mind to listen to the love stories many “broken hearts” have to say. Many have been defrauded psychologically, materially and otherwise all in the name of love.
But something screams at my face, most of these stories are nothing but sad ones. This is because falling in love with society is aimed at satisfying the self. And there is no gainsaying that this is far from love. Love itself comes from within a being. This love does not seek to satisfy itself. It only aims at sacrificing its entirety to other beings and not things. This love from within does not only loves the vessel that bears (careful and inordinate love of oneself) but also desire incessantly to love others the same way it loves itself or even much more.
Keep Lavishing value on every being
Keep Lavishing value on every being
No wonder Little Cerebos will perceive love as lavishing of value on every being. Simply put, apportioning worth or importance on every being there is. This value is a value that comes from within. It possesses a fragrance that cannot be hidden from those that encounter such a fellow. This fragrant automatically fills others with all the goodness that comes with love.
It will be pathetic that one will still desire to remain entangled with this societal scam. Perhaps it will take such an individual to experience what is outside the realm of this big societal scam. In this realm; love heals, love conquers all things, love overlooks all things, love is patient, love does not seek its desire, and love values all being and other countless things this short piece will never contain. Therefore, let us keep Lavishing Value on Every being - ourselves first of course (No one gives what he or she does not have), by this, we continue to debunk, deconstruct and destroy not only all those scams about love but also other false teachings or doctrines that sell cheaply in our society.
